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Patrice La Vigne's avatar

What a powerful personal reflection. Thank you for sharing. Much love to you!

I came across this quote recently, and it's been my mantra. I think you'd like it:

I didn’t become selfish. I just became harder to manipulate.

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Emma Murray's avatar

What a quote! Going to keep that one close 🫶

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Kayti Christian's avatar

This is one of the best pieces of writing I've read in a long time. I'm so sorry for what you went through. Thank you so much for sharing your truth and story (and for the shout out). "Exposing our horrors is one way to dispose of them... for the antidote to shame is light, and to break this spell requires speech." 1000% yes to this. xo

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Emma Murray's avatar

Kayti! Many, many thanks for your kind words—reading your writing and following your stories over these last few years helped me pave my own path for sharing such intimacies—thank you for leading by example! xoxoxo

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